Public Service Announcements


It can happen to ANYBODY.

Silence Hides Violence. 

Between 50% to 60% of domestic violence victims are women.

Every 15 seconds, a woman is beaten in this country.

For approximately 4 million women, the battering requires medical or police attention.

Annually 4,000 women’s abuse ends- they die.

Abuse against men is often times underestimated, overlooked, and hidden.

 In 100 domestic violence situations approximately 40 cases involve violence by women against men. An estimated 400,000 women per year are abused or treated violently in the United States by their spouse or intimate partner.  This means that roughly 300,000 to 400,000 men are treated violently by their wife or girl friend. 

 Want to support domestic violence awareness?

YOU CAN!

 

BALLARD PARK IN TUPELO, MS

February 18, 2012 at 9 a.m.

 

Silence Hides Violence 5K walk

$20 early registration fee until January 15th

$25 registration from January 16th-February 18th

Refreshments and t-shirts provided for participants

Trophies for winners provided also

 

This race is organized by Kaitlyn Kincade, a THS student and domestic violence victim, in order to raise awareness and honor the victims and survivors of this crime.

 

To register online for this race, go to www.racesonline.com

 

Thank You for Your Support

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

S.A.F.E., Inc, in partnership with the Ecru Police Department will be showing two films about teen dating violence starting at 6PM on Monday February 7th. The films will be shown in the 4,800 square-foot police department building located just behind town hall.

Dangerous Relationships (29 minutes)

Young people need clear, self-affirming guidelines to understand their choices when a relationship turns unhealthy or destructive. Through a series of dramatizations, viewers see a “blueprint” of an unhealthy relationship between a young couple as it grows progressively more intense. Topics include the early danger signs to watch for, such as irrational jealousy, violent outbursts, emotional manipulation, physical intimidation, and physical abuse.

10 Signs of Relationship Abuse (28 minutes)

Combining powerful interviews of battered and verbally abused teens with expert commentary, video delivers key facts about dating abuse. Emotional abuse includes isolation from friends, family, and outside activities; using insulting names or degrading terms; displaying jealousy and possessiveness; controlling a partner’s clothing choices and behavior; using excessive cell phone use to monitor behavior; and threatening self-harm to control behavior. Sexual and physical abuse includes extreme roughhousing; pushing, grabbing, restraining, and other violent behaviors that don’t leave marks or bruises; touching a partner’s body in ways that make him/her feel uncomfortable; and making threats as a means of coercing a partner’s consent to sexual activity. Teen speakers and dating abuse experts offer helpful advice on how teens can get away from potentially unhealthy relationships.

There is no cost for this event and participants will be provided with handouts about dating violence and community resources where they can get free help or counseling. The S.A.F.E., Inc community educator will be on hand to answer any questions.

This film showing will be in conjunction with the “Jeans for Justice” display.

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“Domestic Violence Awareness Month to be Honored”

an article by Barbara Bennett from the Daily Corinthian dated September 25, 2010
to see this article online at the Daily Corinthian’s website:  http://tiny.cc/jya17

Purple Ribbon

In recognition of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the Purple For Peace Campaign will be happening throughout our community during the month of October.

The Purple for Peace Campaign in memory of Amanda Millsaps has been organized by her mother, Rita Millsaps, to raise public awareness regarding the dangers faced by domestic violence victims and garner support and community commitment to ending the violence.

Amanda Millsaps was murdered last January by her estranged husband. A beautiful young woman, Amanda had graduated with her master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Mississippi State University. Rita Millsaps is conducting the Purple Campaign as a tribute to her daughter and in an effort to save lives and prevent such a reoccurrence of violence in our community.

The purple ribbons displayed throughout the city and across the country during October have become one of the most widely recognized symbols of the battered women’s movement. Throughout America, families and friends of victims have adopted the purple ribbon to remember and honor loved ones, like Amanda, who have lost their lives at the hands of someone they once loved and trusted. Shelters and victims advocacy organizations use the purple ribbon to raise awareness about the crime of domestic violence in their communities.

According to the FBI, domestic violence is a pattern of behavior in which one intimate partner uses physical violence, coercion, threats, intimidation, isolation and emotional, sexual or economic abuse to control the other partner in a relationship. Stalking or other harassing behavior is often an integral part of domestic violence.

Businesses, agencies and individuals are invited to demonstrate their support for domestic violence victims by “going purple” through the use of ribbons, clothing, lights or other means to convey the message that domestic violence is unacceptable in homes, schools, or workplaces throughout our community. When asked about the purple ribbons, supporters are encouraged to share important information concerning domestic violence, such as:

• More than 40 percent of all the people murdered in the city of Corinth over the last 20 years died as a result of domestic violence.

• One out of every four women in America have been beaten or sexually assaulted.

• Domestic violence costs our society over $4 billion each year in health care expenses.

• Domestic violence costs U.S. employers up to $13 billion every year.

• Victims of domestic violence have greater rates of unemployment, health problems, and welfare dependency.

Both the Corinth Police Department and the Alcorn County Sheriff’s Office will be showing their support for the Purple for Peace Campaign in memory of Amanda Millsaps through the display of purple ribbons on the patrol cars and uniforms of officers within each agency.

“We want everyone to understand the seriousness of the problem of domestic violence, the costs to our community, the impact it has on so many people, especially the victims,” said Chief of Police David Lancaster. Added Sheriff Charles Rinehart, “The Alcorn County Sheriff’s Office supports this effort to raise awareness about the crime of domestic violence.”

Jeans painted with messages about violence have been created by residents of northeast Mississippi from a wide variety of backgrounds and age groups in conjunction with our annual “Jeans for Justice” fund-raiser. The jeans reflect the individual artists’ feelings about violence in our community. Some jeans honor victims of violent crime, others state facts and statistics, and others send a message of hope.   “Jeans for Justice” are on display in the meeting room at the Iuka Public Library through the month of October.

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September 25, 2010, 7:00 pm
National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims


Who: Survivors of Homicide Victims, family and friends, community leaders,
law enforcement and the public are invited
What: The National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims
When: Saturday, September 25, 2010 at 7 pm
Where: J.T. Neeley Building at Veterans’ Park on Veterans’ Blvd., Tupelo, Ms
Why: To show community support for the victims and their loved ones, and to advocate
for prevention of violence in our communities.

Note: Please bring an “empty” pair of shoes for the ceremony. Bring an umbrella for the walk in case of rain. We’ll walk in the rain (if it’s not too heavy or stormy) It’ll be like having tear drops from Heaven.
Please join us as we remember those whose lives were cut short by an act of murder, manslaughter, DUI, war or other violent incident. This day sends a powerful message to these individuals that we as a Nation, remember their tragedy, honor their courage, and vow to do whatever we can to help them rebuild their lives. It also reminds us that murder impacts each and every one of us, and every community nationwide. This day calls us to work diligently to prevent the violence that destroys lives and devastates families.
Hosted by Survival, Inc. a nonprofit, United Way Agency serving North Mississippi.

What Every Congregation Needs to know About Domestic ViolenceAs a part of domestic violence awareness month 2010, S.A.F.E. Inc., northeast Mississippi’s rape crisis center and domestic violence shelter, is sponsoring “The Faith Based Community and Domestic Violence” trainings for clergy, youth group leaders, and members of the faith-based community. Through a mail campaign, over 600 churches and faith-based groups from 11 counties were invited to participate in these trainings. Each group also received the brochure “What Every Congregation Needs to Know About Domestic Violence.”

For many victims of domestic violence, a church, or other faith-based group, is their only form of support or contact with anyone who could help them to identify and escape what they are going through. Victims who have the support of their congregation have a higher change of living a life free of violence. Training pastors, clergy and other members of congregations to recognize the difference between a marital spat and a continuing pattern of abuse can be the key to ending violence in our communities and to saving lives. S.A.F.E., Inc. staff will be providing this training three times throughout the month of October in various locations throughout our service area.

Topics for this training include:
• Information on identifying and coping with domestic violence
• Realities about why women stay in abusive relationships
• How a faith-based community can assist victims of violence
• The affects of domestic violence on children
• An overview of S.A.F.E., Inc.’s batter’s prevention program
• How to hold batterers accountable for their actions
• Creating a safety plan for victims

Information especially for the faith based community is available continually online at www.safeshelter.net/every-congregation

Current trainings scheduled:

Lee County

October 7th 2010
10AM -1PM
All Saints Episcopal Church
608 West Jefferson Street
Tupelo, MS 38804-3736
(662) 842-4386

Tishomingo County
October 14th 2010
10AM-1PM
Iuka First United Methodist Church
101 E. Eastport Street
Iuka, MS 38852
662-423-6097

Union County
October 28th 2010
10AM -1PM
New Albany Presbyterian Church
605 Highway 15 South
New Albany, MS 38652
(662) 534-6060
All trainings will include a boxed lunch. Please RSVP to maryk_safe@comcast.net or call (662) 841-9138. If you or your congregation wants to schedule an additional training or a training for your area, let us know!

S.A.F.E., Inc. needs your help!

Many battered women and children used our shelter services this summer and started their lives over in a new home. S.A.F.E., Inc. provided these families with many of the things we all take for granted in our day-to-day lives. We need to collect more items for our newly arrived women and their children. If you can donate any of these items, we are in need.
Small Household Appliances can openers, coffee makers, microwave ovens, toasters, toaster ovens , electric frying pans, crock pots, blenders and mixers
Kitchen Supplies: pots, pans, dishes, glasses, mugs, bowls, silverware, serving plates, spatulas, wooden spoons
Furniture dining room tables and chairs, sofas, shelving, night stands, and dressers
Mattresses and bed frames, all sizes
Bedding and quilts
Please call (662) 841-9138 to arrange a time to drop off your donation.

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